A lesbian top is often the partner who takes initiative, whether that is starting the first conversation on a date or leading the action in private.
The "illusion" can also refer to the "Femme/Butch" spectrum , where a "femme top" might use hyper-feminine, illusion-style clothing to contrast with a dominant personality role. The Role of a "Top" in the Lesbian Community
Many who identify as tops find gratification in "giving"—providing pleasure, care, and emotional leadership to their partners.
In fashion, an "illusion" top typically features sheer mesh, skin-toned fabrics, or strategic patterns that create a visual effect, such as the appearance of a bare midriff or specific body contours. Within the lesbian community, these garments are often repurposed for —a historical practice of using subtle style cues to signal queer identity.